you are in a right place here. I am glad, that you decided to share your thoughts.
This is not so much about any specific group, but about community, where doors are open, and anyone with a good intent is welcomed. It cannot be a small circle of people, because an MBT is not a small thing. We all different, with different backgrounds, young and those, who lives long enough... Of course, it cannot be a crowd too, since a crowd has a high entropy, and this place is lowering its entropy, not always though.
It can feel like a group, because people move on or any other reason, and they stop posting here. I don't read all posts either. Taking a break could be a good idea too. Tom's absence is one reason. I have to think about all of that.
'Real knowledge is to know the extent of ones ignorance.' Confucius.