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I forgot to add: Once you have a strong NPMR experience you won't be the same any more. Once you go black you never come back. I mean once you go 'inside' you will want to keep coming back home again.

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No, no, no, that's enough, thanks Claudio. It isn't so much word games, although I do love it, it IS clarifying things in my opinion. If I'm not clear here how could I be clear there, wait...something is occuring to me...nope, gone. I'll think on it.
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I forgot to add: Once you have a strong NPMR experience you won't be the same any more. Once you go black you never come back. I mean once you go 'inside' you will want to keep coming back home again.

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Well Claudio, straight to the fear you go. This is exactly it. I have a VERY addictive personality.
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This is about NPMR importance

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Claudio,

I think understanding can be gained in many ways, and one is not better than another. Some of us who do not go to NPMR getting our awareness of it too, I cannot present you data, but I know, it is coming to all of us. May be it is not as sharp as yours. Who can compare and say - you are a winner, this is your laurels. ;D There is not only one way to low your entropy and understand MBT. Incites are coming as a whispering into one's ears, and a thought, which can be identified as a completely foreign to a person, as a dictation, when one in rushing to get a piece of paper and a pen, because he/she must write something. There are much more examples of these strange things, and they bring awareness and knowledge to this particular person. Our teachers/helpers/Consciousness provide the most suitable opportunity to educate us, we have to pay attention to it. This is from my experience, when I am ready, paying attention it comes to me from nowhere, all I have to do listen and write it down. Whatever comes is rendered to my ability to see and understand. May be it is a some kind of protection plan for me, since I am easy to get scared. I don't see why other people don't have their own way to learn and grow. My way is not the best one, just more convenient for my skills and level of development.

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I experienced NPMR before knowing about MBT and immediately after starting reading it enough I realized that everything in MBT makes so much sense. I hear a lot of people that have not had too much NPMR experiences making judgements about MBT. Sorry to be a pain but I am going to say that if you have not had too many NPMR experiences you may not be able to incorporate MBT in your soul and if you did have some important NPMR experiences you WILL KNOW that MBT IS TRUE


I didn't have any npmr experiences, not that I know off... but I hear what you'r saying.
I also think that without any npmr/oobe experiences, one can't fully understand mbt, like you said.

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It's like pretending to talk about tennis without ever hitting a ball with a racquet. Once you start practicing you will know that Tom knows what he is talking about. Everything fits into place. So if you want to enjoy and experience all the power and available energy your being has, go for it. At some point in your meditation, don't just stay in the void, have some Intent to do something, whatever. I don't want to use the word 'believe', but if you have trouble experiencing anything after so many meditations, believe that you can experience anything you can think of and more. The only thing that will limit you are your own limitations. MBT does not limit you at all. MBT says we are in a digital environment, so anything is possible. Whatever is not possible, don't worry about, you are going to find out by yourself.


Yeah, I agree with this too... but there's no rush, I mean, I only said - at the beginning one needs to hold on in the void for at least 20 minutes minutes, or to have the ability to stay there for how many minutes one likes. I can't do that, I only get to 'some other state other then just eyes closed dark type' (don't know if this is the 'beginning' of the void or what) after 15-20 minutes.. and everything before that is my imagination and my ego and chatter.

- This is why I told debbjer to not rush it, and wait, and to not expect anything.. after that, IMHO, one (me, debbjer, anyone) can start experimenting with intent, and after that, experimenting with things Tom talked about.

I don't know if im wrong about this, but I always thought that first step is perfectly calm mind.. and that if you don't have a calm mind in meditation, you can't 'consciously' experience npmr/oobe, except in some cases, maybe like robert monroe's case ?

If that's the truth, then one needs to work on being able to do that, then to experiment with npmr, and then, to 'really know' what's going on.


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I have actually been trying to post less often, but I keep getting baited it seems.

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First off, Deb, I would am inclined to agree with your post IF it had all the caps removed and also if it had every instance of the word 'just' removed. (I find that word particularly annoying when it is used next to the word 'data', by the way: The implication is that experience can be nominalized and its meaning marginalized. I don't think anyone intends for the expression to mean that, but people inevitably will read it that way at times, and that would be a tragedy. To wit, the discovery of, or the death of, a lover, is indeed, 'data', and arguably, 'just data', but to nominalize the experiences that way is an almost criminal trivialization.)

and... one more thing. Let's consider defining a "belief system" as an emotionally charged cognitive model that tends to self sustain. To the extent that the model is not emotionally charged, it tends not to have the BS-hypnotic tunnel vision problem.

Models ARE, though, always models. Models will never ever EVER be 100% accurate concerning the thing they purport to represent... to be so they would have to be at least as "real", at least as much as differentiated, as the thing that represent. Implicitly then all models have at least a smidgen of belief system 'odor' inasmuchas we hope that they are employable as maps of use.

So, ( I must say: by my way of reckoning), Tom's model is a belief system according to how much emotional charge the individual user brings to it. If you feel free to set it aside for another model, either to suit an occasion, or just for any reason, if there is no anxiety and no ego threat, then it isn't a belief system for you.

Separately, it looked like above that there was a confusion between quality of consciousness, focus of consciousness and complexity of consciousness....?

I'll hazard that CF=Q ... by which I mean to indicate that in general, as complexity or focus rises so also does quality. I am thinking that clarity needs to be in that formula too. (Of the set of terms clarity, focus, complexity, none are mutually exclusive.... by way of examples (hipshooting) : Clarity and complex (& low focus) = byzantine; clarity and focus ( & low complexity) = basic geometry; complex and clear but with little focus, ... oh, I am thinking, Tim Leary, ... my examples are rangey, but should be enough to indicate where to find more if you want them.)

ALL just my current opinion.

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Lena: I think understanding can be gained in many ways, and one is not better than another. Some of us who do not go to NPMR getting our awareness of it too, I cannot present you data, but I know, it is coming to all of us.

Claudio: When you train to get better at something, different ways of training get different results (e.g. for sports). There are ways which you achieve better results than others. Some, though depend on the person, one method will work better for A, another better for B. You cannot learn to be a programmer if you don't try to write programs though.

Lena: May be it is not as sharp as yours. Who can compare and say - you are a winner, this is your laurels. ;D

Claudio: I don't care if I am a winner or not. I am just thankful that CS helped me get enough experiences to know Big truth. I though realize some have much less experience than me in NPMR and others (like Tom) way more. I am happy for anybody that can feel it (either a little or a lot).

Lena: There is not only one way to low your entropy and understand MBT. Incites are coming as a whispering into one's ears, and a thought, which can be identified as a completely foreign to a person, as a dictation, when one in rushing to get a piece of paper and a pen, because he/she must write something. There are much more examples of these strange things, and they bring awareness and knowledge to this particular person. Our teachers/helpers/Consciousness provide the most suitable opportunity to educate us, we have to pay attention to it. This is from my experience, when I am ready, paying attention it comes to me from nowhere, all I have to do listen and write it down. Whatever comes is rendered to my ability to see and understand. May be it is a some kind of protection plan for me, since I am easy to get scared. I don't see why other people don't have their own way to learn and grow. My way is not the best one, just more convenient for my skills and level of development.

Claudio: You see, you were able to experience. That's good. I wasn't talking about evolving or lowering entropy. But one thing you should take into account: Your guides or whatever you want to call it may allow you to experience more if you show that you really want it with all your soul (for not saying heart). Don't limit yourself by what you experienced so far. If you really want more and tell them that, they are certainly listening and they may give you more.


P.S.: Remember how excited Tom shows in his interviews about the moment Denis and him met in NPMR and experienced the same thing. Like Master Card says: "Priceless". I bet you he experienced a big change in himself after that.


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I agree Montana, and have felt that twinge since I started using the term (It's Just Data) just recently; just indicates insignificance and that is not a useful term to be used in this fashion now or when future readers see its use. It's Experiential Data? This because "it's data" does the same or worse, for me. It's It...mm, ice cream cookie sandwiches, that term is taken. It's Experience, It, what the hell is it, oh yeah, it's data when it happens to you, and when it happens to other and we want to help what is it then, what "word" is going to help them see their loss while significant is one experience in a long, long, list of experiences that will never EVER end, and that they can access the data that they miss (the "dead" loved one) in the database on their own if they so desire.
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Montana wrote:
Let's consider defining a "belief system" as an emotionally charged cognitive model that tends to self sustain. To the extent that the model is not emotionally charged, it tends not to have the BS-hypnotic tunnel vision problem.


I want to re-puzzle: Let's consider defining a "belief system" as a cognitive model that tends to self sustain due to emotional charge. Your second sentence had a mind-numbing effect. New meditation material.
(edit: btw; don`t stop yourself from posting. Please.)

Deb,

thanks for posting. I struggle with similar ..indistinctness (-es?:).

-k


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Tom pretty much is love, and back at him always. Sometimes I wonder if when I connect my thoughts to him (think about him) if it doesn't produce a pulling sensation since his love bucket runneth over (in my opinion). Yes though, and that is REALLY NICE Montana, to think of him, loving thoughts towards Tom as he puts words to wordless concepts.

I like re-puzzle kristian, repuzzling is useful. De-BS'ing and repuzzling.
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I appreciate all the feedback.

I have been exploring altered states for many years. When I was 16 - we used to call it "tripping". My friend and I would agree on somewhere to take a trip and then we'd sit cross legged and stare into each other's eyes until the face disappeared. We seemed to enter into some place together and take a trip. We'd just find ourselves on a beach or at a lake or wherever we agreed to go. We'd compare notes when we finished. At first we just talked about what we saw, felt, etc., and then after a few times we started writing things down before we compared (we both thought each other was BS'ing) ...hence the written comparison!

I've also done many healing sessions in an altered state.....as well as talked to various deceased people I've known...and some I haven't. I always considered these experiences as altered states rather than OOB, but Tom says it's all the same thing. So guess I've spent lots of time in NPMR. I just haven't managed to come back with anything relevant. I have had great results with intentional healing.......but I also suspect the person's expectations and beliefs play a major role in the success of a session.

So Claudio - I can say that I've spent a lot of time in NPMR ...... and I can also say that experience DID NOT help me to grasp Tom's books. Book 1 was easy for me and made perfect sense...... The second read of the series was a bit easier as I am now familiar with the acronyms (which felt like a different language). I read a few pages and then realize that my mind has wandered. I can't seem to keep myself focused long enough to absorb it all.

I find this board the easiest place to read and hold my interest for longer periods of time. Once things are explained a few times they seem to eventually sink in!! Even though I'm well read, I notice that most of you on this board seem to use words that are not part of my everyday vocabulary.......usually one can determine the meaning of a word by the context it's used in........but jeez, sometimes it feels like there's some kind of linguistic competition going on! LOL.


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Yeah like a great debate with some one or an other trying to be the Master Debater. We can all be master debaters if we want to though. :)
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You cannot learn to be a programmer if you don't try to write programs though.
Claudio,

As a matter of fact I did. I have tried many things in my life. It was not for me, but I am glad, that my life is making so many turns.
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Claudio: I don't care if I am a winner or not. I am just thankful that CS helped me get enough experiences to know Big truth. I though realize some have much less experience than me in NPMR and others (like Tom) way more. I am happy for anybody that can feel it (either a little or a lot).
It is great, that your path and your abilities let you learn Big truth. Sooner or later it will be time for all of us to learn it too, we all are parts of AUM, and it is our goal to learn, help others, if we can and they like to learn with our help, and as a result finally we all become Love. Isn't it a main purpose for our schooling here?
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Claudio: You see, you were able to experience. That's good. I wasn't talking about evolving or lowering entropy. But one thing you should take into account: Your guides or whatever you want to call it may allow you to experience more if you show that you really want it with all your soul (for not saying heart). Don't limit yourself by what you experienced so far. If you really want more and tell them that, they are certainly listening and they may give you more.
Understanding who I am, learning about my fear and beliefs is my short and long time goals. At the same time another goal is to get rid of fear and beliefs connected to it. Somebody else after me will be able to go to NPMR without fear, I hope. Evolving to me is very important part of my life here and right now. We all at a different stage of our personal development, and what is a must for you may be not a first priority of his/her kindergarten lesson for someone like me.
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P.S.: Remember how excited Tom shows in his interviews about the moment Denis and him met in NPMR and experienced the same thing. Like Master Card says: "Priceless". I bet you he experienced a big change in himself after that.
Tom is able to fulfill his purpose here. Mine is much smaller. Tom can set an example for all of us. I am not belittling myself, I am who I am.

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Montana wrote:
Let's consider defining a "belief system" as an emotionally charged cognitive model that tends to self sustain. To the extent that the model is not emotionally charged, it tends not to have the BS-hypnotic tunnel vision problem.


I want to re-puzzle: Let's consider defining a "belief system" as a cognitive model that tends to self sustain due to emotional charge. Your second sentence had a mind-numbing effect. New meditation material.
(edit: btw; don`t stop yourself from posting. Please.)

Deb,

thanks for posting. I struggle with similar ..indistinctness (-es?:).

-k


OK, thanks, k, the more times I run through this, the clearer it actually becomes for me.

There're 3 basic steps to getting a cognitive handle on Belief Systems.

1) Understanding that they have some sort of cognitive base.
2) That they have an certain emotional charge that especially energizes them
3) Seeing how they tend to select for information that confirms them and de-selects information that contradicts them.

1) You could say that your mind is really made of 'maps'... pictures about the world out there... they aren't the world itself, but they are maps that help organize it and make sense of it. For example, we all know what a 'car' is, and we all have varyingly accurate maps of them 'in our heads'. We generally know a car when we see one at a glance. If we could pluck a person from 1850 out of his time and have him land in our front yard, and down the road comes a car, he would jump and say "WHAT the heck is THAT???" The closest thing he would have in his map set would be a wagon or carriage, but it couldn't be one of those, because a wagon has to have an animal pulling it, and wagons never ever go that fast. For him something nearly unreal is occurring. He has no map for this very strange thing he is witnessing.

2) If our fellow from 1850 happened to be a carriage maker by trade, or a carriage driver, and his identity and sense of self and self worth were very much tied to his occupation, he would have an intense emotional charge attached to his whole map of the carriage trade, and he would be powerfully aroused and greatly alarmed, and he would say to me: "I beg your pardon sir. But I know carriages. I build them! And that, whatever it was, was not a carriage, I assure you!"

3) And he probably will not have seen the person driving it, though to our eyes the driver would be plain, and his belie systems in place as they are will probably rectify his sensations as something from the devil, between the smell and and strangeness, and he will presently realize that it is an act of sorcery, and we must be in league with the devil and so on. He may even refuse to try to listen to any explanation as a result, instead his belief system of earth walking devils will be enormously strengthened.

So, to move to a more day to day belief system occurrence now, Christianity, probably everyone understands the basic maps about it (2000 years ago, guy gets born, virgin mom, 3 wise men, son of god, yada yada yada...), and people that subscribe to that map set as real generally have a strong emotional charge attached to it. (These emotional charges have two basic sources, as far as I can see at this time. One is the fear of death, that is, that the self could be disintegrated or cease to exist. The other is fear of being ostracized by one's group..... family, society, etc). If you don't subscribe to it, it is really easy to find holes in it without even meaning to: no emotional investment, no blinders.

So... ole Montana happens to be having dinner with a number of people and most are Christians, and, Montana, (who needs a belief system about circumspect conversation around deep BS people), pipes up as the wine is being poured, "Say! When Jesus turned the water into wine, I wonder what kind of wine he turned it into...?" The not too serious christians will raise their eyebrows, the more serious ones will lower theirs, sensing someone unsavory in their presence. Ole Montana, noticing the sudden silence, will try to fill it, "I mean, I like to think, oh, maybe it was a rich lusty port! Imagine what it must have tasted like!" More silence. "Well, come to think of it, it was probably a mild spring evening, at that, and they were always eating fish... a chardonnay!" More silence. "Funny, with a talent like that, you'd think he would have been on the 'A' list of every salon in the Roman Empire.... Gosh! you don't suppose he turned it in to that horrible stuff they serve at Passover, do you??" And about here the lady of the house would say to her husband, "Dear...? May I have a word with you?" The belief system that they subscribe to, or inhabit, would almost certainly forbid those kinds of questions, and automatically process the kind of thinking that would attach to the spoken words as 'sinful'. Their attachment to that map set or model set, and the strong emotional charge with which they light it would presently actually color their perceptual process, and while they probablywould not see horns or tails sprout out of me, they would attach their sense of evil to my image, which in their eyes is now suddenly transformed, and looks unmistakably evil, somehow until now un-noticed, even though I might have been as a Mother Teresa only minutes ago.

Their Belief System will have labeled me as an element that is know within it (a form of evil) and will have confirmed and strengthened itself in the process with its self-validating recognition of one of its elements.


... I hope that helps clear things up.

I need to make a couple of points:

1) That is my current understanding, and not (currently) the official MBT view.

2) I am coming to suppose that 'minds', or 'the mapping function' of the psyche, or consciousness, is actually incubated through a progression of learning to assemble and implement, and finally to outgrow, 'belief systems'. (Just take a few minutes and imagine the brute of he dark ages, singly seeking refuge in the church. At first all they know is fight, eat. You hit 'm on the head with a 4x4, just to get their attention, and at first teach them the very basic things. Sit still. Wait your turn. Be quiet. You will be fed. It takes a long time for them to be educated enough to assemble the belief system which will presently house a civility that will provide a framework to receive further education. It will be a long long road before that belief system will feel like a constraint, and for a long time it will provide structure, meaning, solace, and should it be lost before its time, the person will revert to a Barbarian, almost certainly.) As such, they are not evil in themselves, and are absolutely necessary for a certain stage of growth of consciousness, almost like a placenta. Then, and very importantly, a number of people are still in that stage where their belief systems are essential to their growth, and trying to wrest them from them, or get them to move beyond them, is not good, and even an act of violence. But like a placenta, or a womb, or an egg, the time eventually comes when the thing is too tight, or is left aside by growth and circumstance. If it is still clung to, it will become toxic.

So, this is different, I think, than what Tom would say. But specially defining belief systems as emotionally charged, self-sustaining models, he may not disagree after all.

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What if you adopt as your only belief system being Open Minded and Skeptic. This would solve everything, wouldn't it? This is my belief system: "I believe in me and my omsing :)"

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Tom is able to fulfill his purpose here. Mine is much smaller. Tom can set an example for all of us. I am not belittling myself, I am who I am.


The purpose is also a free will act. You are who you are and what you are but you can also be what you want to be. We are like Gods, we have the power to create. Be all of you can be ... in the Army :)

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