Any help with the situation is highly appreciated.
Bethany, I am very familiar with your dilemma. My father had a brain stem stroke and was, as a result, in a "locked in state". I will leave out the details but I felt like I had been dropped in the ocean in the middle of nowhere with no life preserver.
I hope you and your family are taking care of yourselves. This is a challenging time and you need space and rest. I encourage you to whisper in your mom's ear at every opportunity and encourage her to move on in the direction you and your family believe is in her best interest.
Your thoughts are your link to the LCS. My thoughts are with you, your family and your mom; that you move on in peace and harmony.