I'm going to be straightforward: how likely would be in a situation where one has never ever been able to find such a date/relationship, no matter how much time it goes by (as if an ongoing bad luck were carried within no matter what one tries to do or not do, how much one tries to change or not change) the following cause ---> PMR being tugged from NPMR in order to create such "bad luck" in order to assure that one cannot reach it so that one has to feel rages of frustration that can only be reduced through buffers like intellectual achievement? Is it possible that in specific cases the PMR entity is being constantly surrounded by such a "bad luck" in order to catalyze a higher purpose (i.e. getting proficient at X fields of knowledge/learning) that's been previously pre-defined? In other words, a "you are to remain loveless for life because that's what you came here to do: getting frustrated so that higher intellectual functions are awakened". How likely (or even possible) is that? If so, how can one access such information without falling into an ego-trap that misleads one into thinking "yeah, it's definitely that: I am the Chosen One and that's why all this is happening to me"?
how are you doing with this issue?