A link to that source material would be of value as it is difficult to find anything specific in the disorder of Facebook.
In general Tom describes the situation with game characters to illustrate the situation with yourself here in this Virtual Reality. That is, that the you that you perceive yourself to be are actually much like that video game character. The real consciousness is elsewhere and not between your VR ears. Beyond this, I need an actual reference and to listen directly to comment more specifically.
You might go to this link on the MBT
Wiki and read this written lecture by Tom, prepared from bulletin board posts by him for distribution in advance of his Events like that in Spain. http://wiki.my-big-toe.com/index.php/An ... _Realities
This discusses games such as you ask about. From there, you might back up to the link page for all of his written lectures and see if there might be others of value to you.