I saw a video of Tom saying that when we die and we see our loved ones its just the larger consiousness system playing the part of our loved ones, thats its not really them?
Well, thats a bummer? knowing you'll never see your loved ones when they die in this life? Have I understood this correctly? Any input will be appreciated!
This is the clip I'm referring to.
It is Tom's opinion based on his experience, examination and later conclusion about this in NPMR. That is fair enough. You do not have to take everything over from him 1:1. Maybe your experiences might differ or your conclusions will. We don't know for sure 100% anyway. Neither Tom nor you and me whom we talk with. Of course it could also be the LCS - but then again, we are part of it so 'who' is it then. Guides, 'souls' of the departed, a replica from the system, a malicious entity deceiving you, a benign entity comforting you?
You be the judge. Maybe use your intuition as the most important factor for this. It is all we got.
In my opinion (and maybe intuition), the avatars of others who left this PMR might well appear to you 'sent' from their "Higher Self" perspective, especially shortly after their passing when ADC (after death communication) is very commonly reported.
Just keep in mind that our human life personalities are roles we play (avatars) temporarily and whom you really are in contact with while still alive or afterwards to meet 'people' you loved again then would most probably be their Higher Self.
Just my two cents.